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To those who lost loved ones

To those who lost loved ones One person told me, Her loved one has gone to heaven. She misses him and suffering from the pain. I asked, What is the heaven like? She answered, Heaven is free from suffering and pain. So I asked, Would he rejoice in heaven as he sees you suffering from the pain? She didn’t answer. I asked again, Can you say he truly loved you if he doesn’t grieve over your suffering?     She didn’t answer.   So I asked again. If he is grieving as you are suffering, can you say he is in heaven?   Still she didn’t answer.   So I said to her, For your loved one to stay in heaven, he must have either completely forgotten you or enjoy his life in heaven regardless your suffering.   And I continued, If you loved him and still love him, you will need to free yourself from him so that he can go to heaven. Your suffering could hold him away from heaven.   Then I added, All the living things have their ends. As such, all the

What makes study hard? - theory

What makes study hard? - theory   One of the reason for students’ suffering life in school is theory. Theory is reasonable explanation on observed phenomena.   Even if they are reasonable, no theory is 100% correct.   Every theory changes and evolves to give a birth to new one.   Some of them are even selected to be discarded.   Theory can be changed next day but students learn, understand and memorize them as if they are the facts.   And students are even evaluated for the accuracy of the theory.   While theory evolves, students learn to stick with old theory.   They never learn how to change the theories.   This is why study is so hard.